All of us wonder about the way the messenger (pbuh) was with his wives. How he dealt with them? How he treated them equally?
How was the Prophet treating his wives?
What was the Prophet’s way in treating his wives? How could he treat them equally?
The Prophet (pbuh) accomplished the happiness to every one of them; that is because he knew how to deal with women and he penetrated deeply into her sensitive soul and went on apostrophizing her with the warmth of passion and assisted her to work for her religion and her life.
And what about his wives-the mothers of all believers -? If we searched to know about their lives, we will find that most of the books describe the Prophet’s wives with a common quality; fasting a lot and spending their nights praying. So they were privileged with their nearness from Allah and in apostrophizing him all night, that’s why they deserved this great honor ,they deserved to be the mothers of all believers, wives of the beloved Prophet (pbuh) in this life and in the hereafter.
But, what about us? I know that a lot of the readers are married, and if not, they can see what is going on in most of the marriages these days; noticing their parents, relatives, and friends. Why marital happiness is rare in our days? Is it our time’s fault? No, it is our fault, both men and women.
The fact is that we ruined our lives by materialism, by forgetting our religion, our Islamic civilization, and the teachings of the Prophet (pbuh). We forgot our love to Allah and committed sins publicly; our eyes and hearts do not blink for a moment fearing Allah and thinking about the fact that Allah is watching us.
Then, what can we do now to let happiness come back to our marital lives?
There is only one way; the way of Allah and his Prophet (pbuh). This will make everyone happy with his partner in their marital life, and feel the meaning of the marital happiness that almighty Allah created.
From here, dear brothers and sisters, i thought of this series “the Prophet as a husband,” to let every husband and wife who became far from each other restore love again. I hope you will follow up this series.
All prayers, blessings, and peace of Allah be upon Muhammad, his family, and companions.