||from jaabir (radiyallaahu 'anhu) who said that allaah's messenger (salallaahu 'aliahi wa'sallam) said: |
do not acquire knowledge in order to compete with the scholars, nor to argue with the ignorant, nor to gain mastery over the gatherings. since whoever does that, then: the fire! the fire!
consider, may allaah have mercy on you, the admonition and the lesson contained in what ibn abee haatim ar-raazee narrates, he said: i entered into damascus upon the students of hadeeth and i passed by the circle of qaasim al-joo'ee. i found a group sitting around him and he was speaking. their appearance amazed me and i heard him saying: 'seize the benefit of five things from the people of your time: when you are present you are not known; when you are absent you are not missed; when you are seen your advice is not sought; when you say something your saying is not accepted; and when you have some knowledge you are not given anything for it. i also advise you with five things: when you are treated unjustly then do not behave unjustly; when you are praised then do not become happy; when you are criticised do not be upset; when you are not believed then do not become angry; and if they act deceitfully towards you do not act deceitfully towards them.' ibn abee haatim said: so i took that as my benefit from damascus.
so consider, may allaah protect us and you from the evils of the soul, how sincere desire for knowledge and benefit led him to listen to one who certainly possessed less knowledge than himself in order to benefit his understanding and to acquire some knowledge. another matter that must be mentioned here is that: