` that when someone from her family died, the women would gather together because of the death. After they left, her family and closest friends would remain and she would order that a pot of Talbeenah (soup made from barley flour and bran4 ) be made, then Thareed would be made (a dish made of meat, bread and broth), and the Talbeenah would be poured over it. Then she would say, “Eat O you women, for I heard Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, say: ‘Talbeenah relieves the heart of someone who is ill, and does away with a bit of sadness and worry.’”