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So you should marry the religious woman
Narrated Abu Huraira may Allah be pleased with them:
The Prophet (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.
Marriage is one of the highest demands because it secures preserving the offspring, and the stability of human life on the earth in a way where man can reform the life as intended by the Creator the Almighty.
Women and men are working together to establish the limits set by Allah and to perform what Allah commanded them, so that each one will assist the other in achieving his/her aspirations. As well each of them shall help his partner to bear the consequences of life as much as possible.
The noble lineage is one of the considerations among people in marriage in particular, and concerning the other matters in general in general; because it is a link between two families. Then there must be material and moral accordance between the two families so as not to harm any of them.
Competence in terms of lineage is one of the conditions of the marriage validity according to the view of many jurists in the sense that the man is competent for the woman.
If a man desires to marry a woman of honorable lineage and high rank, then he did well on the condition that she is religiously committed.
This is why the Prophet (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: " So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser." In other words, make it the ultimate goal; for this marriage is a support for you, because the beauty of the religiously committed woman lies in her morals and good behavior because the religiously committed woman is protected against whatever her husband dislikes, and adorned with a special beauty which the illicit women lack.
Her capital is her religion also because Allah blesses whatever she is granted even if it seems little. It is well known that the righteous woman is often self contented. Her heart is devoid of the passions, which causes her to be greedy and to ask her husband for the things that he can not afford, she usually follows the approach of moderation in terms of spending; because The Quran taught her to do that.
The religiously committed woman reflects the outward beauty and the inward beauty in her words, actions and conditions.
As for her words, the truthfulness is their nature. As for her actions, the faith is her dye. As for her condition; they are controlled by the moderation so that if she became angry, she may not persist in anger, or violate the limits set by Allah because of her anger.