Be like him
This is A .. He spent a romantic day with his wife and gave her a gift with the intention of following the Prophet = good deed.
This is B .. He spent a romantic day with a woman and gave her a gift because he wants to imitate the evil he sees in movies = bad deed
This is A .. Playing the ball with the intention of maintaining ties of brotherhood with childhood friends .. = good deed
This is B .. Playing the ball with great determination and proving that it is still the best and strongest for childhood friends = bad deed
Be A .. Do not be B