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He, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, honored their requests so long as it did not include anything impermissible:

Auther : Muhammad Saalih Al-Munajjid
Under category : How He treated them?
360 2022/10/20 2024/06/13
Article translated to : العربية

When describing the pilgrimage of the Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, Jaabir ibn ‘Abdullaah (a Companion) narrated the inci-dent of ‘Aa’ishah getting her menses and that she was unable to perform‘Umrah before Hajj and was crying. Jaabir ibn  Abdullaah said: “The Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, was an easy man to deal with and very well mannered, and  whenever she (his wife) wished to do something, he would allow her to do it.

Another example is the story of ‘Aa’ishah; She narrated: “One day the Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, was sitting with me, when we heard loud voices, so he, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, got up to see what was happening, and found out it was only some Ethiopian boys playing with their spears, so he said to me: “O ‘Aa’ishah, do you want to come and watch them play?” So I went and placed my chin on his shoulder, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, and watched them play. He, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, asked me: “Have you had enough [of watching]?” I continued to say no in order to see my status with him (to see how long he would tolerate standing like that).

Ibn Battaal (a scholar) said: “It proves the noble manners he, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, possessed and that one should favor what makes his wife rejoice over his own comfort, so long as the matter does not include any prohibition.

Another narration reads, “I continued to watch them until I was the one to stop and get up and leave.

Ibn Battaal said: “It proves that the husband should endure his wife’s behavior even if he dislikes what she is doing, as long as it is not a prohibited matter






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